1. I can only control what is in my reach. Anything beyond my reach is out of control.
2. I need to not take things personally. I internalize too many things.
3. Speak my mind. When I’m mad, I should say that I’m mad. When I’m upset, I need to say that I am upset. When I’m frustrated, I need to say that I am frustrated. When I’m disappointed, I need to say that I’m disappointed. When I’m jealous, I need to say that I am jealous. I can’t keep my emotions to myself.
4. Learn to accept that promises will be broken.
5. Learn that no one is a mind reader.
6. Not hold myself to a higher expectation than everyone else.


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